It always makes me feel guilty when I’m approached by a
panhandler and I have to say no to them.
This is partly because I doubt their authenticity of really being in
need or that they are just trying to feed their addictions. Of course not all panhandlers are
dishonest. In fact, most of the panhandlers
I actually encountered seem genuine. But
there’s something about not wanting to feel cheated or used that refrain me
from giving out so often. The whole
point of this is really not about “me”.
When we give, we are being in solidarity with our sisters and brothers
who are less fortunate than us. The
Catholic Social Teachings call us to have preferential option for the poor and
imitate the love of Christ through others.
This does not mean we have to give to every person we see that asks us
for money. No, that is rather absurd
because there will always be poor people.
But as Christians, we are called to be charitable, with our money, our
time, and our love. Sometimes people
just want our undivided attention to talk to so we give them our full
presence. Generosity is love expressed
outward in a smile, a hug or a prayer.
Even Jesus did not heal everyone.
We recognize our limitations as human beings and give in ways our
vocations lead us. That can be giving
out money, volunteering in a food pantry, visiting the elderly, cleaning dishes
for our family, or simply loving ourselves more. To love, one has to know what love is by
loving ourselves (BUT NOT TOO MUCH!).

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